Actually, people tend to suck. People are selfish and stupid and we all tend to hurt one another left and right. It seems like 99% of the people we all met are jerks, or cocky assholes, or snotty bitches, or just plain old bad people. Let’s be honest, a lot of people are like that…but I’d like to believe that it’s all false. I’d like to believe that even though people hurt other people all the time, there is not one person on this earth that is truly horrible. There is not one person that should be labelled as bad, there is not one person that should be ignored, and there is not one person that should be expected to never mess up. We have all made bad decisions. We have all treated others in ways that we probably shouldn’t have. So why should we judge others based on one bad decision or one bad choice that they have made? People should not be defined by what they say or what they do, but by what lies in the depths of their hearts. And this is something that is extremely hard to see…this is something that takes times and effort to discover. 

Because of the fact that I believe that people shouldn’t be judged based on their actions or by what they say, but by who they really and truly are, I tend to see the best in people. Even if they hurt me or insult me in any way, I will still see that person as a human being, just like myself that deserves another chance and someone that deserves forgiveness. Life isn’t about judging others and shunning them out, it’s about making memories, and creating relationships that are worth more than anything. Maybe I sound naive, and maybe you think I sound stupid, but I’ve thought this way my whole life. And if I get hurt because of it, so what. That’s what happens in life. But at least I know that I will treasure every relationship that I’m ever blessed to have.

All I know is that I am blessed to have had you all in my life, and I would not trade what we had for anything. And no matter what happens from here on out, I value my friendship with you all more than I could ever express

soycrates:

endreal:

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nicotineenema:

Shout out to girls who don’t mind being called dude and man casually

shout out to boys who don’t mind being called guuurrl 

shout out to humans who don’t mind being called dawg

shout out to dogs who will let you call them anything so long as you say it in  a happy, friendly tone.

You wanna know what I’m really afraid of? Falling in love. Actually, love in general. I know in my heart that love is the most essential thing in life…or at least in my life. And that is what scares me. The fact that I put love in front of everything. Since I value love so much, I know that when I let myself fall…I’ll be gone. I will lay my heart out on my sleeve. But what if it’s more for me than it is for them? What if they are more important to me than I am to them? I don’t want to give anyone the power to make me feel worthless. I hate not knowing if someone really cares about you or not. And with any relationship, you can never be sure. You can never be sure if you are stepping into something that will only leave you in tears. But I’m also afraid of being alone. I’m afraid of never being in love. Does this all make me crazy? To be afraid of both of my options? 

laugh-addict:

Roses are red

Violets are blue

What a charmer

(Source: poopflow)